Verily never will Allah change the condition of a people until they change it themselves (with their own souls) Al- Quran

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Wake up leader







John Maxwel (internationally respected leadership expert) says, “The first step to leadership is servant hood”
Nobody in this world has achieved anything haphazardly. Neither will we. Success, victory, triumph, accomplishment and achievement like words can only be expected when you follow certain universally accepted and proven rules, and fulfill some minimum requirements.
You work for a greater and unanimous goal and shun your personal skewed opinion, which, although may not be wrong, may not apply or may be unrealistic or impractical under the prevailing situation for the sacred cause and national feat. Due to the above fact, requirement of a leader and leadership comes to existence.
Every nation is composed of millions of people with millions of eyes and minds, and even though the goal of whole nation may be a common one, which universally are prosperity and freedom and every individual envisages with his mind, eyes and knowledge, his own ways to achieve it.
The duty to direct all these individuals, their thoughts, dreams and resources and to carve a consensus opinion and put them in one common direction has been entrusted upon leaders and leadership from time immemorial. Great success comes only when a leader understands his source of strength and success, which has undisputedly been the ocean of people who follow and believe in him. A leader cannot succeed without an emotional and deep level of bond with his people, and he cannot and should not declare himself as a leader until he has not acquired profound knowledge and understanding about his people at a superior level especially about their sensitivities. Excellence of leader and leadership are reckoned on the level of interaction and sharing with his people. Leaders should not forget that their opinion, even though is important but is not superior to the opinion of the whole nation. They should consider themselves like any other true patriot of a nation and should realized that what they have been entrusted with, is not their estate but a responsibility and whatever their individual approach or personal belief may be - its importance should not take precedence over national opinion and interest.
Divide and rule is a lesson even primary school children are well aware of, unfortunately it is over utilized in Kashmir at present, not due to an intelligent enemy but due to our own belligerence. These words despite serving as a mirror reflection for the people I am pertaining to in this article, regardless will sound repetition or redundant to most of the Kashmiri people. However, I write in the perspective of reiteration and desperation, but more honestly - in an effort to knock the doors again, behind which is an unattended and consciously or unconsciously denied aliment which likely may be distressing to people who are suffering from it and beyond any doubt is eroding the whole Kashmir nation.
It is not too late for us to peep in our minds and hearts and look for this disease of individuality, which is not only keeping us behind in acquiring a strategic position at international level, but is even causing unaccounted loss of emotions, efforts and even human life. Our leaders and leadership have to wake up from their deep slumber before it is too late to recover.
At the present time, in this changed world, ways to achieve similar goals as used in past have drastically changed, especially since the last decade. World order has changed; perception of things has changed; now the same thing that was good in the past has turned bad ironically.
Timely methodologies and meaningful innovations have to be applied and acceptable ways have to be adapted to revitalize our voice for legitimate demands. For these unprecedented requirements, to keep our voice in echoes will need lot of dedication and concentration, a great intellect and ample time to formulate appropriate strategies. This definitely demands integration, harmony among all people at helm of affairs and mental peace at individual level.
Who will knock your doors? And will you listen? Who will come to your houses to reconcile you? I believe the answer is – no one? People will find their leaders and leadership because they are the ones who create leaders, and give meaning to their existence. If you don’t shun your arrogance and indifference they will one day walk over you, history is witness to this fact. The regretful mention in history will not be your absence but the loss of priceless tears from dried old eyes, loss of fresh teen blood, it will be the waste of timeless effort and unmeasured resources, bearing of incredible trauma and agony, the unattended cries and the unknown and unappreciated sacrifices. History will hold you accountable for all this because of your heedless and reckless approach towards your responsibility.
Why should one who is observing from outside blame India for the inexorable carnage in Kashmir, if our leaders can’t feel the pain of it? Despite Indian persistent forceful and deceptive subjugation of deprived Kashmiris, our leaders and leadership is busy in fighting about their own occupation.
Realize and remember no leader or leadership in Kashmir is by choice, but by chance. Again they are not chosen ones, they are in there by chance and in spite of that reason people have faith in them and follow them, they respect and regard them as leaders. This puts more liability on their shoulders, to prove themselves as being rational, equitable, uncorrupted and devoted towards their duties and responsibilities. Yet in contrary, you find them active in their personal rivalry, petty, stupid and unnecessary “party” issues, which seem pathetic and clearly indicate that they have forgot their institution and their origin. They can hear similar echoes from every corner of Kashmir valley and across the globe. In every other family or college discussions, they can discover over and over again similar disappointments being expressed by all age groups. For how long will they live in denial? This denial may not be proving harmful to them, but certainly is hurting the nation in general and the sacred cause in particular grievously; indeed only an insensitive and blunt heart can disregard this.
The real spirit of leadership is that you have to have vision. Vision in leaders emerges from a dream of sacrifice for their people and it can be fortified by honesty, selflessness, discourse and deliberations with his brethren who entrust in him their future. Our leaders have an uphill task ahead of them, but if they put their nation first in their minds they will prevail, I have a firm belief.
This is a sincere appeal to our leaders and leadership, Kashmir and we Kashmiri people have suffered beyond measure, sadly unknown to the world. Our enemy is not only barbaric and inhuman but also shrewd and cunning, which should provoke us to be proactive in fighting the dangerous illusory designs with logical and universally acceptable inventive moves.
Believe it or not till we are not ‘one’ even Allah will not be ready to save us. As is clearly written in the glorious Quran.

"Verily never will Allah change the condition of a people until they change it themselves (with their own souls). But when (once) Allah wills a people's punishment there can be no turning it back nor will they find besides Him any to protect." Q11: 13

I would like to conclude with few painful lines.

“They put our House on fire long time ago;
We started consoling each other long time ago
My brothers we are still burning
Please don’t stop consoling each other.
”http://www.greaterkashmir.com/full_story.asp?Date=28_2_2010&ItemID=18&cat=17


It's only an able leadership that pulls a nation out of the crisis

Friday, February 26, 2010

Kashmir - the Forgotten Occupation.

A young girl is sitting in front of me, ironing the white shalwar kameez that is her uniform, ready for school the next day. We have been chatting about the usual stuff - clothes, movies, school... I ask her about the halats and how it affects her - halat meaning the situation. No more needs to be said: she knows I am talking about.

what has repeatedly been termed The Kashmir Issue. "So many girls have been raped in Kashmir and so many of them are known to me," she said. "One girl was interrogated and raped in front of her begging father-in-law." She sees the tears in my eyes, folds the kameez she has just finished ironing and picks up the shalwar. "This is what happens all the time - our lives are built around deaths, rapes, murders. For two days we go to college and then for the next four days it's closed because of a curfew or something going on."

This is not a joke to them, there is no childlike joy in being given a day off school. She feels it is impossible to gain freedom now - "when the gun comes in somewhere, it does not easily disappear. Look how beautiful Kashmir was, now it is hell. It was heaven, now it is hell."

Who is this young girl that is telling me this so calmly - with no trace of naive emotion - with the air of someone who has gone beyond that and has pent up all tears as being useless? This is Feroza - my cousin, dear to me as my own sister.

"You just have to tighten your stomach muscles like this - each time, before they hit you," he says laughingly. "That iron rod will leave a lot more bruises if it comes down on a soft stomach," continues the smiling young man trying to wave away the fear in my eyes and the pain I feel for him, for he is my mum's brother, my uncle, interrogated and tortured by the Indian army.

You don't really want me to go on in this way do you? I don't intend this to be a sob story about how my family and me "back home" in Kashmir have suffered. I could just make it a quick list - a great grandfather burnt alive in his own home, a whole family made homeless by their home being burnt down, a cousin blinded by a bullet while attempting to rescue the forementioned grandfather from that fire, my grandparents along with babies and children in the family, made to sit outside in the snow for hours while the house was searched, windows smashed, personal belongings strewn. The mismatched frosted glass on the front doors is the only indication left of the brutal looting of our home.

My family are not unique in this special treatment by the Indian army, which occupies and has been occupying the valley of Kashmir for the last six decades. There is not a single family in the whole of occupied Kashmir that has not been touched by the terror.

>So does this explain why I become so passionate when people here at university with me don't even realise what is going on? "I'm originally from Kashmir" I say. "Kashmir? Where's that?" Or a slightly, I hesitate to say, better response is: "Kashmir? Like cashmere wool?"

India, who has occupied the Valley of Kashmir by force, still revels in its title of most democratic nation, with no fear of reproach from the world at large. Islamic terrorism is a word so ready at everyone's lips, but what about the extremist Hindu views of the BJP which openly wants to eradicate the Muslims of Kashmir. While America wants to liberate the people of Iraq from an oppressive régime, they ignore the cries of the people of Kashmir, who have been under the oppressive régime of their own government for the last 60 years.

In the democratic city of Delhi, one is free to do as one wants. This is a very difficult idea to describe because all of us living here in Britain take this so much for granted. The flight from Delhi to Srinagar is 45 minutes. Both are cities of a country that calls itself democratic, yet the difference in the mere atmosphere of each is staggering. Once you enter Srinagar airport it is stifling. Immediately the security checks are tripled. On emerging, in all the city and its surrounding towns and villages, one cannot walk more than a few metres without passing the imposing and threatening figure of a military man fully armed. Kashmir has the highest concentration of armed military per square mile in the whole world. Military convoys rumble past the traffic - which has to stop and allow them to pass in much the same way as we have to stop for ambulances or fire engines in the UK -only, in Kashmir there is the risk of being killed in open fire if you do not.

There was never a time when I did not feel watched on the streets. On one of my early visits to the Valley, I witnessed the dead bodies of two young men being taken away. Both covered in pure white sheets, each had one bright red bloodstain. It did not seem real. Where were the cameras I thought? Surely they were shooting for a film. The image - such a cliché in the Bollywood movies, is nothing but haunting in reality. At night I was sometimes kept awake by the firing. "Peye eman trath" curses my aunt in Kashmiri and turns in her sleep.

I take these sights and sounds back to England with me like extra baggage, which although it weighs nothing on the scales at the airport, puts a weight on my shoulders that breaks my heart.

It is truly depressing to see a people not free in their own land. A people brutally imposed upon by others. My grandmother recently came to visit us here in Britain. It was the first time she had ever ventured outside of Kashmir and it seems fitting to end with the words of a woman who had the chance to see human beings living without fear for the first time in her life - only when she left her homeland. "Oh Allah!" she would say out loud, "oh Allah! let that day come when my Kashmir too will attain the freedom you have bestowed on these people". (Sumaya)

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Published on 10/29/04
http://www.thingsasian.com/stories-photos/3115/21551018/0/con0_rec

Reminder: For My Brothers

They put my house on fire long time ago,
Consoling are we each other since long time ago
we are still burning my brothers
Don't stop consoling each other.

They sold our house cheap long time ago;
a painful irony in human history long time ago;
don't sell cheap again my brothers;
don't stop consoling each other.

Darkness ; in darkness they kept us since long time ago;
oblivious they kept us, from world since long time ago;
don't fall in darkness again my brothers;
Don't stop consoling each others.


They are on mission, to slay us since long time ago;
we have been giving sacrifice since long time ago.
Don't let your blood go wast my brothers.
Don't stop consoling each other.
(Tariq)